Overview
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True Intelligence Defined: Intelligence is getting what you want out of life—both knowing how to get it and wanting the right things in the first place. Many pursue "booby prizes" that create their own problems.
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The Autopilot Trap: People end up in unwanted places by following societal expectations, mimetic desires from others, parental guilt, or tribal programming rather than thinking decisions through independently.
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Decision Time vs. Commitment Time: We spend months deciding on jobs or cities that lock us into multi-year paths. Naval suggests spending 25% of decision time on major commitments—a year of thinking for a four-year decision.
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The Secretary Theorem: After exploring roughly one-third of options, take the best you've found or anyone who meets that bar. It's iteration-based, not time-based—meaning you should take opportunities quickly and bail quickly when they fail.
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10,000 Iterations, Not Hours: Mastery comes from error-corrected iterations, not mere repetition. The moment you know something isn't working, move on—staying too long is usually the biggest regret.
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Overriding Hardwired Pessimism: Evolution made us pessimistic to avoid predators, but modern society offers unlimited upside and is forgiving of failure. Be skeptical about specific opportunities but optimistic in general.
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Avoid Self-Limiting Labels: Terms like pessimist, introvert, or "traumatized" lock you into your past. Stay flexible and adapt—identity clouds judgment and prevents objective reasoning.
Takeaways
Naval Ravikant shares this on the Modern Wisdom podcast. Iterate quickly through options, cut losses fast, then compound fully into what works.
The moment you knew it wasn't going to work out you should have moved on